Wow, that was really interesting, and it was good to hear someone *articulate* the differences between gay and straight porn, because I've been watching straight porn since I was a wee little highschooler (most of my friends were boys, and Thursday night porno night was a staple) and while I *kinda* liked it, I had some slight "you're attracted to that silicone female?" "OMG that guy is fugly" problems, and then I found slash, and then I found gay porn, and then I *got* porn. Anyway, I'm rambling - thanks for sharing!